Kite dok atas muka bumi ni, bkn sorng2... Sometimes, gaduh2.. masam2 muke... itu lumrah hidup la kan. Tapi, lg bgus klaw kite bleh elakkan. btol x? These strategies can stop a fight before it starts. So, have a nice reading! =D
1. See things from your partner’s point of view.
in this case, ade sesetengah spesies manusia ni, ego diorng tinggi sgt. Nak kata selfish pon bleh jugak. Smua bnde na kene ikut ckp dia. Smua prkara, pndpt dia je btol. ( cukup baran btol klaw jumpe spesies nih... haish... =.=' ). Actually, jgn la cmtu kan... kite ni bknnye smpurna... kene la amek kire pndangan org laen jugak... cara pikir masing2 x sama... :) klaw smua org cara pikir same je, xde la engineer, xde la artist, xde la photographer, xde la architect. btol x?
2. Count to 50 before you say anything incendiary
haaaa.... kire smpai 50 seblum ckp something yg mungkin bleh memburukkan keadaan. =D bile korng kire tu, sbnrnye korng da amek masa ntok relaks, tenangkan fikiran, berfikir secara rasional... This pause will help you calm down just long enough to think better of it. stuju x? (^^,) anyway, x perlu la smpai na bilang kuat2, na gune stopwatch ke ape keyh... =.=' agak2 da laaa... kang ada org kate korng ni tiga suku plak. Waktu tadika dulu x puas lagi bljr mengira agaknye... heheh...
3. Don’t throw verbal bombs
hah! point yg ni cukup penting bg org2 yg jenis mulut lepas. wohoooo..... sabar kak..... sabar.... heheh... =D bile da mula ada pertelingkahan tu, cube bwk2 brsbr sikit... jgn la trus na marah2, kutuk2, or maybe ungkit2 bnde lame ke... something like that... x kire la dpn dia / bkn dpn dia. maklumlaaa... ade org bile gaduh, suke masuk dlm bilik, kunci pintu, pastu marah / membebel sorng2. tu sbnrnye x mndtgkan pekdah pon... memburukkan lg keadaan ade la. so, jgn cuba2 na curah petrol kat bara api ye... =)
4. Ask yourself if you can — and should — solve the problem on your own
klaw rase2 mcm susah na selesaikan satu2 hal tu dgn si dia yg korng tgh argue ni, cube pikir leklok... dok diam2... pikir jap... klaw korng rasa korng bleh selesaikan mslh tu by yourself, cube jgn libatkan dia... contohnye, klaw gaduh, wlaupun bnde tu bknnye slh korng, cube try mintak maaf... =) buang sikit ego tu... don't wait for him / her ntok mintak maaf dulu, sbb dia blom tentu pun mintak maaf. heheh... XD just wanna share la kan, mintak maaf tu bukan bermakna korng kalah... korng lemah... tp sbnrnye tu menunjukkan korng adalah seorng yg cukup kuat ntok menundukkan ego korng + value your relationship more than your ego, bebeh. (^^,) people love this type of person, believe me!
5. Skip heavy conversations before breakfast and from 11 a.m. to 12 p.m. and 3:30 p.m. to 6 p.m.
kenapa....? mengapa...? heheh... ni sebab.... waktu2 ni, perut korng LAPAR... repeat again, LAPAR... k? get it? bile korng lapar ni, korng x fokus sbnrnye... furthermore, korng akan cepat naek angin. caye x? caye x? heheh... =D hah? korng x lpr...? ye laa.... ye laa... klaw korng x lpr, dia yg lapar... haish... heheh... time2 ni pun slalunye tgh penat... so, probability utk berfikir scara kurng logik dan waras adalah tinggi! that's why la klaw ma / ayah / sesape je br balik keje, elakkan la tanye psl bnde2 yg kurng menyenangkan... nnti x psl2 je kene mrh. k? Fatigue starts many fights! haaaa.... so, klaw rase2 jap lagi na gaduh, mkn siap2 k? hekhek... gurau... gurau.. =D
ok. tu je la 5 tips mengelakkan perbalahan yg pika na share dgn korng... =) hopefully smua dpt benefit drpd tips2 ni... ade mase bleh apply in daily life, ye x...? heeee.... ~ XD klaw ade extra tips na tmbh or ade story wanna share, leave your comment k? =) see ya next time, assalamualaikum...
